This article by Parker Palmer must be about generosity too. We get confused between generously offering our advice, opinions and suggestions and generously allowing another person to be fully present as they are. Where in the moving Venn diagram of our interactions with others is the most open centered space where all that is as it is, is allowed to be as as it is? It must be in the open heart we all share.
https://onbeing.org/blog/the-gift-of-presence-the-perils-of-advice/